Keep a tidy and well organized home.
Wear feminine clothing that a man would not be caught dead in.
Be sure to be as well groomed as possible.
Improve your mind through reading.
Work to make your movements feminine and delicate.
Try to see the good in everything.
Add a touch of elegance and beauty to your daily routines.
Keep a journal of all that you are thankful for and read it when you feel blue.
Learn to improve your penmanship and begin collecting special stationary so that you can write real letters to your loved ones.
Begin to work towards becoming more active and fit.
Educate yourself on the art of applying makeup and arranging your hair.
Bestow a lovely smile upon all you meet.
Improve your disposition, making it as cheerful and loving as possible.
Be sure to emanate a calm, quiet air.
Be as creative and thoughtful as possible when it comes to doing mundane things.
Decide on a signature... perhaps you always use white satin ribbon to wrap around your gifts or maybe you write letters on violet colored paper.
Learn what it means to be refined and work to make this a part of your interaction with others.
Let go of bitterness.
Try to learn a new skill or art as frequently as you can.
Look to the past to show you how feminine women lived. Use this knowledge as inspiration.