Tuesday, July 31

Five Days and Five Nights...

Anyone who has visited this blog (or my last one) for awhile, knows that I love talking about clothing and frequently toy with the idea of creating the perfect wardrobe out of a few good pieces. I recently came across the site Travel Smith and they are advertising an interesting concept: Get ready for five days and five nights with ten pieces of clothing! While the style of clothes is not necessarily my cup of tea, the concept is great. Their wardrobe list includes the following in only four colors- denim, white, black, and red:

Trench Coat(like) Jacket
Boot Cut Jean
White Button Down Shirt
Pin Tuck Shirt
Multi-Gore Skirt
Black Trousers
lacy Wrap
Suede Pumps
Shimmer Tank
Stretch Belt

One of the great things is that the pieces shown on this website are not exclusive... If you don't have one of these basic items, it can easily be found in a local store. In addition, the clothing is relatively timeless, so you will be fashionable for several years, not just a few months!

Would you ever consider a wardrobe this small (or maybe only a little bit bigger)? I must say that it appeals to me very much, but I wonder if after awhile I'd get bored.


Monday, July 30

Mmmm, Mmmm, Good...

During our most recent doctor's visit, we were told to increase our little one's caloric intake as much as possible. Since she is only sixteen pounds (less than the 5th percentile as compared to her height which is in the 50th percentile), the doctor suggested foods like full fat milk (which is always recommended), butter, bread, pasta, ice cream, meats, cheeses, etc. One dessert our lucky little duck has been enjoying is a pudding parfait - chocolate on the bottom and vanilla on the top! Of course it is made with whole milk AND is calling my name from the kitchen!

Not Just for Kids...

These sweet little piggies demonstrate good manners for little children to learn... I think that everyone could benefit from a little flashcard drill!

Tuesday, July 24

Living Well on Less: Like Merchant Ships...


Meredith is doing an outstanding job as this week's Finishing School teacher! I have really been enjoying her posts on Starting Small, An Attractive Breakfast Table, and Budgets and Bags. I hope that each of you have time to go over to her blog and glean some fresh ideas for practicing "cheerful frugality!"

Feminine Improvements in the Yard...

Though I hung a wreath on the front door and tied flag bunting to the porch railing the day we moved in, our yard needed some serious work! Husband got right down to business and mowed the lawn, weed-whacked, and set up the sprinkler to try to revive the yellowed grass today. Normally, we are against watering lawn (especially since the house doesn't belong to us and the owners aren't interested in paying for the H2O), but our neighbors have been complaining a bit about the owners lack of dedication to their yard. We're hoping that a bit of water this week will appease the masses and revive things a bit. I hope they don't get too excited though, because I have a feeling that we'll be coiling up the hose in a few days and letting Mother Nature do the rest!

How have you improved your curb appeal lately?



Feminine Improvements in the Nursery...

After we cleaned out the garage yesterday, I had all that I needed to work on the baby's nursery. First I moved all of the furniture around until I found a suitable arrangement. I unpacked the tray that tops the changing table and elegantly organizes cotton balls, q-tips, and a basket full of odds and ends. Next, I covered the changing table pad with a pretty piece of vintage floral cloth and moved on to putting a light bulb in the table-top lamp, books and special keepsakes on the shelves. Since we've decided that the time has come for the little one to move into her own bed and room, I moved her crib mattress and bedding into the nursery. All that is left to do is to hang a few pictures and blinds, put away the co-sleeper, and put together the toddler bed (in a few more months!).

What room did you improve today?

Monday, July 23

Feminine Improvements in the Powder Rooms...

The first rooms that I will be working on this week are our bathrooms. We have two and a half baths and each one really only has the bare necessities in it!

I added flowers (either faux or dried) to each bathroom and also added a few knickknacks and candles to the master bath and guest bath. I've also thought about a few pictures that I'd like to hang on the walls... Husband just needs to find some time to hang them! With the towels folded prettily and the window films we put up last week, things are much improved!

Note: While editing this post, I somehow deleted the links that some of you put up yesterday... I am so sorry about that! If you wouldn't mind, please put them up again! I only got to visit one or two and I'd like to visit the rest and comment on all! Thank you!




Some Feminine Improvements...

As I look around our new home, I am struck by the fact that most of the rooms lack the little feminine details that I am normal quick to distribute! Since we've only been here two weeks, we have a busy toddler, and have had four different overnight guests since we've been here, it's not really that surprising, but the time has come for some personal (and yes, FEMININE!) touches to be made inside these four walls!

This week, I will be going room by room and listing the small changes I will be making to each space. I would love it if everyone here would participate as well. Though most of my changes will be decorational, yours could be accomplishing things in each room that have been bothering you (or your family), a little tidying up, cleaning, or anything you want! I will probably be limiting my changes per room (for now) for time's sake because with everything else going on here, sometimes I just have a few minutes to accomplish things.

If you'd like to join in my little adventure, just sign the Mr. Linky on the posts to follow and let us know what you're doing on your blog (or in the comments section!).

Gather ye Rosebuds while ye may, John William Waterhouse

Thursday, July 19

Finishing School: Week Four...

Though I am shamefully late on announcing this, I want to make sure that all of you hop right over to Julieanne's blog, My Daily Life as a Wife and Mother, to view her recipe and instructions for making the perfect summer dessert, Yellow Cake with Lemon Cream Cheese Frosting! The finished product looks absolutely delicious and perfectly beautiful! I am inspired!

Never Mind...

I have to totally take back my last post on being clueless in the kitchen right now... Mrs. Wilt's last two posts were on Peanut Butter Cookies and Tomato Sandwiches. Can you say dee-licious? Add a little bacon and lettuce to the tomatoes, mayo, and white bread, and I'm all over them! After all, it's a Thursday and if you are Orthodox, you know exactly what I am talking about!

101 Simple Meals Ready in 10 Minutes or Less...

With the dog-days of summer officially upon us, I find that I am lacking a bit of creativity in the cooking department. Though I usually really enjoy preparing meals, not having any imagination is putting a damper on any excitement farm-fresh produce is giving me!

Enter a great article (Summer Express: 101 Simple Meals Ready in 10 Minutes or Less) from The New York Times, and I think that I'll have inspiration for MONTHS!

Wednesday, July 18

Beautiful Privacy...

Our new home has two bathrooms with windows in very inconvenient areas. One overlooks the shower and the other is very close to the toilet. After searching high and low for curtains for a narrow window and a window that would be wet frequently, we happened upon Decorative Window Film by a company called Artscape. I have to tell you, I absolutely love how they turned out! We chose Wisteria, but there are many other options to pick from (we were also considering Magnolia). I cannot wait to show you the real pictures!

Thursday, July 12

Phew...

Well, the move is officially over... What a relief! We still have plenty of boxes to empty (Where, oh where, are my bowls and salad plates?!), but things are slowly but surely taking shape. We love our new home and neighborhood and are looking forward to getting aquainted with everything around us!

I'll have some updates soon!

Tuesday, July 3

Yikes...

Due to some errors on our part and on the part of the realtors for our present house, we have to move out of this house by next Tuesday (we originally thought the lease was up July 30th, but it was really June 30th!). Yes, there's a little bit of a freak out going on at our house, especially since as of Monday morning, we had NOTHING packed.

If I'm a bit absent from this blog for awhile, you'll know why. Hopefully I'll be back by the middle of next week:)

Happy Fourth of July!

Moving On, by Julie Paschkis

Sunday, July 1

A Comforting Sunday...

Today was full of all the comforts of home... just how I like my Sundays!

  • Today was Fr. John's first anniversary to the priesthood. We celebrated with a special coffee hour followed by brunch at a local hotel with some of our good parish friends. The dining room overlooked the ocean and food was delicious!
  • The baby and I took a nice long nap with the afternoon light streaming in on us.
  • Dinner was Beef Stroganoff over egg noodles followed by Blueberry Cobbler. Meredith, your recipe truly does inspire rave reviews!
  • A nice long walk around the neighborhood... the evening air was nice and cool and it felt great to stretch our legs.
  • A dvd of The Queen.

Finishing School: Week Two...

For Week Two of our Online Finishing School, we are heading over to the Merry Rose to learn a bit about some notable American Women. Elizabeth will highlight some different things that we can learn about each throughout the week. This is especially timely, as those in the United States will be celebrating the national holiday of the Fourth of July on Wednesday!

Friday, June 29

Finishing School: Personal Presentation...

Wardrobe

The final entry for our week on Personal Presentation will be on a lady's wardrobe. There is a bit of an obsession with wardrobe size, style, and fit in today's society. One can hardly flip through a magazine without coming across at least one or two blurbs on creating the perfect style or flawless wardrobe. There are even countless tv shows and websites dedicated to the subject!

How a lady dresses really depends on what she needs to do with her time. If a woman works outside the home, she will need to have more variety than a woman who is a homemaker. This is NOT to say that a homemaker should allow herself to become stuck in a clothing rut. Your family and home is your job and you should dress like it! Remember, it takes the same amount of time to put on a well-fitting and stylish top and bottom as it does to slap on a pair of sweatpants and a ratty tee shirt.

Though it is a bit outdated, I have found Helen Valentine and Alice Thompson's book Better Than Beauty: A Guide to Charm to have one of the best explanations on wardrobe planning I have ever read. Here it is for your enjoyment:

Planning a Wardrobe
"How does one do it? Many women's magazines have a blissful way of attacking the problem as though money grew on trees. They tell you how many dresses and pairs of shoes you will need, what hats and coats to choose, and what accessories. But most of us cannot afford a whole new wardrobe at one time. And even women who could afford it would think twice before they threw out a few favorite frocks or a good coat and started from scratch.

Planning begins at home, right in front of your clothes closet. But even before that, there is one important step. Sit down for a moment and think. During the coming season, where will you be going, what will you be doing? exactly what types of clothes will you need the most?

No one except you can plan your wardrobe. But here are a few general ideas which may help:

Let's go back to your clothes closet. Take out everything you have left from last year. Let us suppose that it is an autumn and winter wardrobe you are planning. Out comes the old coat (how board you are with it!), the crepe frock, the brown wool sweet dress, the tired dinner gown, the suit that was such a bargain but really not much fun to wear. What a collection! This is the time when familiarity breeds contempt! You'd like to bundle them all up and send them to a worthy charity. But you can't. So, sit down and do the next best thing.

If you can sew, you're in luck. If you've never tries to sew, by all means make an effort. Or, if you don't want to sew, find an inexpensive seamstress. You have no idea how much money you can save if you've never tried this most practical of all ways to use leftovers.

Take that old coat. You really do need a new one. But let's not make a decision about it until we've considered the whole problem. Put the coat aside for a moment. If you can manage to salvage the suit, perhaps you'll be able to get that much needed coat. Your suit wasn't a success. The skirt was never becoming because it bulged in the back, though you did like the jacket. And it was a good looking tweed. How about the old wool dress? You never realized how nice it's plain nubby surface looks next to that nubby green tweed. Why not make a new skirt out of the wool dress? Sometime that merely means cutting at the waistline and mounting the skirt on a belt. Sometimes it means a complete remaking. But even that is less expensive than buying a new skirt.

Well, if that works, you won't have to spend as much on a suit. So there's something saved toward that new coat.

How about the crepe dress? Is it beyond redemption? Well it's black and that's a help. But the collar looks worn and gray. Cleaning can't change that. How about ripping the collar off entirely and putting on a small one of heavy white silk? Don't sew it in. Put it on with snaps, so that you can remove it easily. Why not have several collars? A dusty pink or a soft yellow would look lovely on black, if those colors look well on you. At any rate the old black crepe will do to start the season. So again you've saved something toward the coat.

The dinner gown is a lovely color, but you've worn it so often. And it's skirt has a decidedly last-year look. Must you wear it another season? No- you have a plan. You'll get a coat. It will be black, because your last one was brown and also because the wardrobe that includes only one coat can stretch itself the furthest on black. You'll ask the store to get you enough extra fabric from the manufacturer to make a simple skirt. The neighborhood tailor will make it for you for very little. The old dinner gown can be cut up to make a really lovely blouse to wear with the new skirt. And you doubtless have other blouses or sweaters that will do nicely with the black skirt and give you a well-put-together look when you wear them with a new black coat.

That leaves a dinner gown to be bought. And, when you get some extra money, a street dress or two.That is the way to plan.

Of course, your closet will reveal an entirely different set of props, but the theory holds just the same. Too many women look dowdy merely because they do not make the effort to pull their wardrobes into shape. It does take thought and effort. But the results more than justify them. Chic can easily be a triumph of mind over money."

Homework: What five things can you add to your wardrobe to make it a bit more easy for you to get dressed in the mornings? Do you enjoy purchasing accessories (shoes, bags, jewelery) more that you enjoy purchasing clothing?

Thursday, June 28

Finishing School: Personal Presentation...

Now that we have gone over feminine attitude, health, and posture, we will be focusing our attention on grooming. While caring for one's general tidiness is probably the least difficult thing one can do, it is often the most neglected.

How often have you looked in the mirror to realize that your eyebrows needed plucking, you hadn't taken the time to get your hair trimmed, and your nail polish was chipped? With the exception of appointments at the salon, most of our beauty routines only take a few minutes at a time... and once they are done, we feel like a million dollars.

There are several different ways to make sure that you take care of your basic grooming needs. One way is do lock yourself in the bathroom once every week or so and work on everything at once. Another method is to take care of things little by little, day by day. Perhaps you do your nails on Monday, your eyebrows on Tuesday, and your exfoliation on Wednesday, etc. Still another way of taking care of yourself (and sadly the category that I fall into most frequently) is the "wait-until-everything-looks horrendous-before-I-take-care-of-myself" mentality.

Many of us need a game plan for taking care of our home and it is the same with our bodies. Often, there are times in our life when we are on top of our grooming game (usually when we are dating someone special, have just gotten a new job, were just married, etc.) and we need to make sure that we take that enthusiasm for our personal presentation throughout our lives. We have to realize that we are walking billboards for ourselves and our families.

The first step in preparing our game plan is to think about all of the things that we do for our bodies on a regular basis. Once that list is drawn up, you can go through each item and decide when you need to do each item. To help illustrate my point, I will give you some examples:

  • Daily: Moisturize, Brush and Floss Teeth, Wash Face and Moisturize, Makeup and Hair
  • Every Other Day: Shower, Shave, Clean Ears
  • Weekly: Eyebrows, Manicure and Pedicure (if needed), Clean Jewelry that is worn daily, Biore Pore Strip
  • Every Three Months: Trim bangs
  • Every Six Months: Hair cut/trim
Some time ago, I also posted and entry on my blog that I found fascinating: Your One-Night-A-Week Beauty Routine (for both Housewives and Working Girls)... Enjoy!

Homework: Plan out your grooming routine and tell us what will work better for you - doing everything at once or spreading the tasks out. Also, what is the beauty ritual that you enjoy performing the most?

Wednesday, June 27

Finishing School...

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Finishing School: Personal Presentation...

Posture

As I sit here at my computer desk beginning the third entry for this week on personal presentation, I feel I must be honest with you. I do not have the greatest posture in the world. I walk with a relatively straight back, but I slouch when I sit - without fail.

So, since I need this lesson more than anyone reading this entry, I am going to use two of my favorite writers to teach us about the art of beautiful carriage!

A Guide to Elegance - Genevieve Antoine Dariaux

"Years ago, every well-bred young girl was given posture lessons, and even today when we send our young daughters to dancing school it is usually in the hope that they will grow up to be graceful young women rather than prima ballerinas.

The models who present a fashion collection adopt a curious kind of extremely unnatural walk and posture, with their shoulders slightly hunched, their tummies hollowed and their hips shoved forward to form a kind of figure S. They glide rather than walk and the entire effect is deliberately striking and artificial. But you can be sure that as soon as these beauties leave the spotlight, they assume a perfectly natural walk and posture.

In normal life, it is always to a woman's advantage to hold herself straight, as if she wished to stretch her height by several inches, even if she is already very tall. A rounded back, sagging shoulders and a drooping chin create an image of extreme lassitude, or discouragement with life... and of being ten years older than you really are.

When a woman is trying on clothes, she almost always holds herself beautifully erect in front of the dressing room mirrors. If afterward she hollows her chest and lets her whole body slump, she should not be surprised to find that her new dress does not look at all as chic as it did when she tried it in the shop."

Better than Beauty: A Guide to Charm - Helen Valentine and Alice Thompson

"When we think of women who stand and walk and sit with distinction, our minds visualize the late eighteen nineties and early nineteen hundreds. They certainly stood up and sat straight, those ironclad, corseted-to-the-chin mothers and grandmothers of ours. But rigid ramrods are out of date. Non of us is going back to that painfully restricted era. Neither have be hours to spend walking with books on our heads, nor the leisure to practice how to sit down gracefully.

Rigidity is not necessary when you are aiming at good posture. It isn't even a good goal. But most of us have at least one ugly and easily changed fault of our carriage.

Are you the toil worn type, the woman who walks with bent shoulders and a drooped middle? Get rid of the mental attitude, tuck in your stomach, and watch your body straighten! Are you the inquiring duck-neck carrying your head about three inches ahead of your body? Back up against a wall and make your head touch the wall, too. Get the feel of this proper position, and check yourself as you pass reflecting windows and mirrors.

Do you toe out in the genteel, outmoded fashion of 1912? make a conscious effort to get those toes straight ahead. Have you the arrogant bustle walk, your hips thrown out behind? Start today, learning to walk as though someone were about to spank you - and watch those hips go back where they came from.

Your walk should be distinguished by it's lack of outstanding qualities. You don't want people to notice your posture, good or bad. You want them to see you. So correct the faults that attract attention and forget the rest.

Much the same rule applies to sitting. No one will wait to watch how gracefully you lower yourself into a chair. No one cares. But if you drop in a manner to frighten the owner of the chair, you will get plenty of attention. And if you insist on sitting either like a disapproving maiden aunt or a licentious Roman diner, people will notice you, too. But it won't be your charm they notice. the most prevalent and the ugliest of all sitting faults is the frog-leg squat- and squat is the only word. You know it. The feet are either together or apart, but the legs are widespread at the knees.

Learn to walk and sit in an apparently effortless, graceful manner. Then you can be sure you will have learned to carry yourself well."

Posture Highlights (1950)



Homework: Practice walking, sitting, and standing as you go about your daily routines.
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